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5 Lessons I've Learned about Writing
1. Have something worth saying. In his book Culture Care, artist Makoto Fujimura tells a story he confesses may be legendary about a Yale student taking Hebrew from the great Old Testament scholar Brevard Childs. The student, discontent with his grades, asked the scholar how he could raise them. Childs’s answer: “Become a deeper person.”Peggy Noonan writer of seven books on politics, religion, and culture, and weekly columnist for The Wall Street Journal, was at one time the speech writer for the man considered The Great Communicator. In her book Simply Speaking, she says that what moves people in a speech is the logic. The words “Tear down this wall, Mr. Gorbachev” are not all that poetic when taken at face value. But they express something that resonates in the human heart. In the words of Robert Frost, “Something there is that doesn’t love a wall.”In the same way that logic is what moves people in a speech, logic is what moves people in writing. And to have logic, to move people, we must have something worth saying. In fact, probably about 90% of writing is having something worth saying. And how do we get something worth saying? By expanding the world of ideas to which we expose ourselves and by cultivating a rich inner life.2. Decrease your vision. That is, “think local.” Start with your family. Doug Bender, the bestselling author of I Am Second: Real Stories. Changing Lives. wrote a book for an audience of one. When Doug’s wife had a miscarriage, it grieved the Bender’s little girl. So Doug wrote a child’s book about death and loss just for her.My husband’s favorite seminary professor told his students, “Stop thinking you will go out and save the world, and instead become the best family member you can be, the most grateful child of your parents, the greatest and most dependable encourager in your church, the best contributor to your community.” We influence the world one small corner at a time. Cherish the small.In the days when Abraham’s descendants had been carried off from Israel to Babylon, their prophet, Jeremiah, sent a letter to King Nebuchadnezzar for the surviving people in exile. Jeremiah’s counsel: “Build houses and settle down; plant gardens and eat what they produce…. Seek the peace and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile” (Jere. 29:1–7). Seeking the good of the city where we live is always good counsel. So write for your kids, if you have any. Contribute good columns to the local paper. Donate some book reviews for your favorite local web site. Do readings at the library. And do so simply to give back and because you wish to make your corner of the world a better place.3. Read or listen. A lot of people say that to be a good writer you have to read. But that is not totally true. Not everyone can read—even among bestselling writers of worth. Bodie Thoene, who has sold millions of books, has dyslexia, which makes it nearly impossible for her to read. My own husband, who holds a master’s degree from a rigorous program, can hardly read without falling asleep, due to a mild form of dyslexia. But he watches a lot of National Geographic shows and keeps up with the news in non-written forms. Some say that Emily Dickinson's meter draws not on the cadences of authors she read but of hymns she sang.Those who cannot read can listen. And even those of us who do love to read can benefit by hearing. These days I learn aurally from NPR’s book reviews, the weekly podcast of the New York Times Book Review, and at least one Audible book per month. In the past six months, I’ve switched my drive time from passive radio listening to more active listen to books on audio. The list has included mostly fiction such as The Goldfinch, The Invention of Wings, Lila, Gone Girl, and The Fault in Our Stars. But I’ve also enjoyed Unbroken, Quiet, I Am Malala, and Bonhoeffer. I would never have had time simply to sit and read those books.4. Write what contributes to human flourishing, not what you perceive as the next hot market. Trying to predict what will sell is like leaning on cobwebs. Just about the time you find a post to rest against, it gives way. By the time you finish writing a book to meet demand, the market will have left you in the dust. So write what you love to write and/or what you can write with excellence. (Sometimes we must write what we do well to pay the bills, even if it’s not our favorite.) Of the twenty or so books I’ve authored or coauthored, the one that continues to bring the most income is Sexual Intimacy in Marriage. There are fifty shades of books available on the topic of sex that sell many more copies than the one I coauthored. I could have turned up the steam and helped people live less fully human lives. And I probably would be making a lot more money. But the world needs more beautiful relationships, not those that are more hollow.5. Measure success accurately. You will be tempted to measure your own success by a number of externals that have nothing to do with your worth. Tell yourself they are lies.Someone once told me that the only human-made structure visible from space was not the Golden Gate Bridge or the Eiffel Tower or even the tallest building in the world, but only the Great Wall of China. Think of all the amazing structures that “failed” to make that list.But that does not make these structures failures. It just means that when measured by one narrow definition of success, they failed. As writers, any number of false measures can make us feel like losers. Did our last book fail to earn out its advance? Did we do a book tour? Did the work gain rave reviews in Publishers Weekly and Library Journal? These are not accurate measures of whether we can write. Lots of crummy books sell big. Many divergent books make their authors lots of money, but that does not make the books or the authors successes.At one time, I thought doing a book signing would indicate I had really arrived. Imagine my humiliation when I had to share a book-signing table with a famous person who had a long line of fans lined up out the door while I had nobody. Well, okay, one person. But she probably felt sorry for me. Still, that book itself changed some lives for the good. The humiliating signing experience had no correlation with the book’s success or mine.So measure not by money or fame, but in influence on human flourishing. And of course, that is impossible to measure. Which is precisely my point.
Mary DeMuth: Not Marked
Happy birthday to my friend, Mary DeMuth! Today also marks the launch of her crowd-sourced book, Not Marked. Here's what Mary has to say about it:
I'm humbled and grateful to be here today. A huge thank youto Sandra for allowing me to share my heart.
A little background: I've sharedmysexual abuse story in the past few years, but I haven't always beenso open. Initially I kept it silent for a decade, then over-shared, then wentsilent another decade. The healing journey hasn't been easy, but it has beengood.
Not Marked (e-version)
Not Marked (print version)
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William R. Cutrer, Best-Selling Author, Touched Many Lives (ANS Newswire story)
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| William R. Cutrer touched many lives. |
He was the first medical doctor to join the faculty of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, KY
By Dan Wooding
Founder of ASSIST Ministries
GRAND RAPIDS, MI (ANS) — Kregel author William R. "Bill" Cutrer passed away on Saturday, July 13, 2013, during a bike ride. He was 62.
William R. Cutrer touched many lives. The morning he died, Cutrer, left his home for a bicycle ride and not long after, fellow cyclists found him tipped over on his bicycle, according to the family. First responders tried to revive Cutrer without success.
Three days later, the family held a memorial service at the Cutrer's church, Crestwood Baptist Church in Crestwood, Ky. Danny Akin, president of Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary in Wake Forest, N.C., and a close friend of Cutrer and his family for more than 30 years, spoke at the service from Psalm 1.
"In many ways, the Cutrer family had four brothers and I was the fourth, and was always treated like that and so much more," Akin said. "In fact, were I to attempt today to share all the ways in which Charlotte and I were a part of this family, we'd be here a long, long, long time."
Akin, who formerly served as vice president of academic administration at Southern Seminary, shared to the story about how Cutrer delivered each of the Akin sons. One difficult pregnancy forced Charlotte Akin to bedrest. Cutrer and his wife, Jane, invited the Akins to move in with them for remainder of the pregnancy, which they did.
Akin concluded his comments drawing a parallel between Cutrer and the psalmist's vision of a blessed man: "Adrian Rogers said that life is lived in depth, not length," he said. "And if a life lived in the depth of God's grace and goodness is certain to be a blessed life, then Bill Cutrer lived a very blessed life as first trophy of God's amazing grace but also as an example worthy of all of us to study and in many ways emulate."
Also at the funeral, Cutrer's second son, read from Alfred Lord Tennyson's poem, "Crossing the Bar," noting the poem's significance to three generations of Cutrers.
"Finally, I would like to end by reading a poem that my dad found solace in at the passing of his father, who also found solace in it at the passing of his," he said.
Following the funeral, R. Albert Mohler Jr., president of Southern Seminary, led at the graveside ceremony.
Cutrer became the first medical doctor to join the faculty of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, Ky, following his successful career as an obstetrician and gynecologist in Texas. While at the seminary, he served as staff physician of the school's Hagan Clinic, an on-campus limited health maintenance service staffed by a charge nurse and physician.
According to a Kregel news release, Cutrer touched thousands of lives through his medical practice, his seminary teaching, and through his diversified writing career. As a medical professional, he teamed with coauthor Sandra Glahn to help married couples discover intimacy as God intended for it to be in Sexual Intimacy in Marriage, now in its third edition with almost 150,000 copies in print.
Cutrer also worked with Glahn to create the riveting CBA best-seller Lethal Harvest, which explored the early promise, and peril, of genetic manipulation. As a seminary professor, he reached out to aspiring pastors, helping them learn the practical skills of shepherding God's people with The Church Leader's Handbook: A Guide to Counseling Families and Individuals in Crisis.
"Bill was one of the most genuine people I have ever had the privilege to work with," recalls Kregel publisher Dennis Hillman. "He was intelligent, insightful, caring, and always striving to focus on things that made a difference. His love for God and God's people was unmistakable in everyday life."
Note: Kregel Publications (www.kregel.com) is in an evangelical Christian publisher who develops and distributes—with integrity and excellence—trusted, biblically based resources that lead individuals to know and serve Jesus Christ. Kregel is represented by three divisions: Kregel Publications, Editorial Portavoz (Spanish), and a retail division. Kregel is also the North American distributor for Monarch, Lion Fiction, and Candle Books and the North American religious market distributor for Lion and Lion Children's Books.
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— ASSIST News Service (@ASSISTNEWS) July 23, 2013(c) 2013 Used with permission.