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A Little Nuancing on Defunding Planned Parenthood
Rachel Held Evans raised some good questions:
"Anyone else caught in this tension?: I'm pro-life in the sense that I believe life begins in the womb [I would say "at fertilization"] and is worth protecting even before birth. However, 9 times out of 10, I find myself totally disagreeing with the pro-life movement's methods for protecting that life.
“For example, completely defunding Planned Parenthood with no plan to replace its other services (like offering affordable contraception, gynecological services, and prenatal care to underprivileged women), could actually lead to more abortions. Teaching abstinence-only education in public schools appears to be less effective than comprehensive sex-education at reducing the teen pregnancy rate. Simply voting for Republicans who want to make abortion illegal (even though they are very unlikely to do so and even though criminalizing abortion won't stop it from happening) without considering how other conservative social policies affect women most at risk for having abortions seems like an exercise in futility.
“And opposing coverage for contraception in insurance policies seems like a great way to increase rather than decrease unwanted pregnancies."
When Dr. Bill and I were coauthoring our book on contraception for the Christian Medical Association, some Christians opposed our talk of methods that did not risk human life. These people wanted us to speak only about abstinence and natural family planning (NFP).
BTW, according to the "2014 State of Dating in America" report published by Christian Mingle, 61% of Christians said they would have sex before marriage. And fifty-six percent said that it's appropriate to move in with someone after dating for a time between six months and two years.
My husband and I abstained till marriage. I'm all for that, believe me. But if most or even many Christians aren't abstaining, how realistic is it to go with abstinence-only teaching in the broader culture? The folks who considered us liberal wanted us to avoid any talk of family planning other than NFP—which we argued is pretty unnatural in that it interrupts sexual fulfillment at the time of the month wives are physically most interested, and for some wives the only time they are interested.
Contraception prevents abortions. We saw that in Russia when women could not get access to contraception, so they used abortion as their chosen method. We met women who'd had five, six, seven, eight abortions.... The married Christians there begged us to bring them contraceptives.
Today, where are the Christians offering alternatives to abortion beyond abstinence and NFP? It's not enough to offer Pregnancy Resource Centers that leave contraception out of the mix. If we are truly against abortion, where is our plan to really prevent them? If we don't care about making contraception affordable and accessible, perhaps we are blinded by our own middle- and upper-class comfort that knows nothing of working three jobs to put food on the table.
Bioethics in the News This Week
Iran’s Population Drive WorriesWomen’s Rights, Health Advocates (Reuters)Iran’s supreme leader has called for a population increase, in an edict likelyto restrict access to contraception that critics fear could damage women’srights and public health. In his 14-point decree, Ayatollah Ali Khamenei saidincreasing Iran’s 76 million-strong population would “strengthen nationalidentity” and counter “undesirable aspects of Western lifestyles.”
Bioethics in the News
Why Chromosome Errors Are High in Women’s Eggs (News-Medical) Up to 60 per cent of eggs areaffected by errors in how their chromosomes divide, making it the leading causeof infertility. A new study provides a better understanding of why.
The Christian and Contraception: My Thoughts
Contraception Bill Misses Mark
Bioethics News This Week
Bioethics in the News
Contraception and Conscience
Selfish or Wise?
Christianity Today's women's blog, her.meneutics, recently ran an article by Ellen Painter Dollar titled, "Why We Don't Use Natural Family Planning." She received lots of responses--some positive, some negative. Some of the "nays" came from commenters who believe people like her are being selfish and refuse to face what's difficult to follow God by allowing Him to decide how many kids they should have. Such accusations evoked a response from me. Here's what I wrote: I am so glad to hear that Sam Torode told The Times, “I am out of the business of trying to tell people what they should do." This is a 180-degree change from when he was featured with my co-author (of The Contraception Guidebook) on the FamilyLife Today radio program*. At that time the Torodes’ “NFP is the only way” approach struck me as arrogant and ungracious. This more humble approach seems more in line with the Spirit of Christ on such issues.I received a call several days ago from a guy trying to figure out if he should have a vasectomy in preparation for seminary. His wife has been told she should have no more children, and the combination of his ministry goals and her health issues suggested to them that a vasectomy may be a Spirit-led decision.I think it’s interesting that in 1 Corinthians 7, the apostle Paul suggests that some may choose to remain single for the glory of Christ. I think the same applies to limiting family size. Colossians also comes to mind: “Do all to the glory of God.” A missionary friend in China has limited his family size to three children, because he and his wife have already exceeded what is culturally acceptable there, and they could “lose a hearing” with their audience if they have more children. Couples going to seminary often avoid pregnancy so they can give single-minded devotion to preparing for ministry.People who say it would be tough to have another child may not be at all selfish or wrong-minded on the issue. They may be good stewards to “count the cost” before building the house.*When gathering the hyperlinks to post this on my blog, I discovered the FL Today radio program has since remixed the shows to delete the Torodes' involvement.
Contraception in the News
I got a call several days ago from a guy trying to figure out if he should have a vasectomy. That may sound like a strange phone call. But as the coauthor of a book on contraception, sometimes I find myself having odd conversations with complete strangers. At least they’re thinking through the issues! Today’s New York Times reported that a medical advisory panel has recommended to the government that the U. S. require all insurers to cover women’s contraceptives, making them free as part of the new health care law. Officials responded by saying they were inclined go with the panel’s counsel. If the government agrees, new requirements would kick in at the beginning of 2013. As expected, the news received mixed reactions. Generally, physicians and women’s groups cheered the news, while the Roman Catholic Church "booed." I fall somewhere in the middle. I believe in many cases contraception is just fine. It’s the stuff that destroys human life that I take issue with. And I hate to see our government covering that. About half of all U. S. pregnancies are unintended, and about 40 percent of these end in abortion. So more contraception means less unintended pregnancy and abortion. Except… the coverage would also include emergency contraceptives, including Plan B. (For more on that, go here.) If a woman has not yet ovulated, Plan B may be a good choice. But sometimes such contra-conception actually ends a pregnancy. In such cases can we really say it has cut down on the number of abortions? One panel member, Prof. Anthony Lo Sasso, a health economist at the University of Illinois at Chicago, disagreed with the recommendation. He said the report includes “a mix of objective and subjective determinations filtered through a lens of advocacy.”